Instructions apply to devices with iOS 14 through iOS 8, and Macs withmacOS Catalinathrough OS X Yosemite.

The best way is to change the controls on your iPhone:

Open theSettingsapp on your iPhone and tapPhone.

TapCalls on Other Devices.

Settings for calls on other devices on an iPhone

Move theCalls from iPhonetoggle switch to the Off/white position.

ClickPreferencesin the drop-down menu.

Clear theCalls From iPhonecheck box.

FaceTime in iPad settings

Then, scroll down and tapPhone.

In theRingtonesection, move both theSoundandHaptictoggle switches to the Off/white position.

More on Continuity

Incoming calls show up on multiple devices due to a feature called Continuity.

“Calls from iPhone” switch in FaceTime settings on an iPad

Continuity allows your devices to be aware of and interact with one another.

Preferences in the FaceTime app for Mac

“Calls from iPhone” box in FaceTime preferences on a Mac

Turning off Phone options in the Watch app for iOS